Making a Systemic Change-{Guest Post}

It’s my pleasure to introduce you to Betsy MacKinnon from TheLiquidBetsy. Don’t you just love the name Betsy?  Betsy can usually be found herding her three kiddies through life, mainlining all kinds of media (especially questionable TV,) or reading the Financial Times. She’s so set on surfing back in her hometown of Newport Beach, CA, it scares her husband.

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Making a systemic change.

Face it , it sucks.

Ask Greece. Ask me.

Whether you’re speaking macro-economically or just asking a person overhauling their life, systemic changes usually* absolutely suck.

A systemic change is one that affects on every spectrum: top to bottom, inside and out. For example, let’s talk the current economics events in Greece.

With too many government workers, retired pensioners, or citizens collecting benefits, and not enough workers who pay taxes (and some say a lax tax-collecting system.) Greece is having to come to gripes with their socialistic fiscal policies – either revise or ruin. Recently there were cuts in government positions, worker’s salaries, and pensions. The turmoil currently going on speaks for itself. Major, painful broad-spectrum socio-economic changes have to happen in Greece for it to survive, because, obviously, they can’t “keep on keepin’on” the path they’re on.

Not that I consider myself on par with Greece. But individuals go through the process of systemic change as well. Often kicking and screaming.

Today, I was in my 74th minute (and I was counting comrades) of my hot power yoga class. Attempting to do a standing spit pose (see below,) I huffed and puffed, muscles quivering in deep stretchy ache. I kept thinking “How did I get myself here?”

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It’s because of a systemic change.

I reminded myself that only a year ago I was an 8 cup o’joe a day, mommy by day, marketer at a start-up by night, stress ball of a hot mess. Tired, exhausted, fried and wheezing- my father’s cancer diagnose and grueling treatment was my very own Greek wake-up call.

I had start taking care of myself or something nasty might take care of me.

I made a systemic change in my life. No coffee. Committing to a detox cleanse. Eating clean. Limited alcohol. More exercise. Meditate, yoga.

And, in the beginning, it totally sucked.

Headaches, caffeine withdrawal, wicked-sugar cravings, chills, aches and pains as I cut out dairy, wheat, sugar, soy, processed foods to name a few. Not to mention re-orienting my priorities, scheduling in yoga instead of pancakes with the kids on the weekend.

But it got better. And slowly, it got a whole lot better. My skin cleared up, the rashes that started to appear months earlier were gone, I slept better than I had in years, more energy, clearer thinking. After 30+ days of my change, I was, in fact, a changed woman.

Not that I’m cured. My health is a work in progress, as seen by my recent “let them eat cake” moment. But the benefits force me to keep at it daily.

You probably have going through this on some level. I tried to come up with a few scenarios (some may sound familar): quitting smoking, losing weight, losing a job, quitting drinking, learning to read, learning to walk, your first real job (“whose FICA and why the HELL do they get my money?”,) learning to drive stick, pregnancy, college, the first year of marriage, the first year of post-divorce, the first year with a child, your parents getting older, your child getting older, you getting older, major illness….

So wether you’re Greece or just you, we all go through systemic change. It’s going to happen. It’s going to suck. You endure and you often find yourself… better.

Worked for me, let’s hope the same for Greece.

*I say usually because you could win the LOTTO and that’s frankly that’s freakin’ great.

You can also find Betsy on Twitter @theBetsy.  In fact, why not send her a tweet now?

About Angie

Angie is a CRAFT dabbling, recipe making, WORD loving, sunshine hording, book DEVOURING, Mama to a lot! She's kind of in love with Instagram right now, so if you want her attention, go find here there. {smiling}

Comments

  1. 1
    Mellisa
    Twitter: mellisarock
    says:

    Fantastic post – I am about to go through a big change in my life – I am going to keep this in mind – it’s gonna suck at first! 🙂 Thanks! Off to find Betsy on twitter!
    .-= Mellisa´s last blog ..Chasing Butterflies Etsy Giveaway =-.

  2. 2
    TheBetsy
    Twitter: TheBetsy
    says:

    Hooray! I LOVE connecting to new people. Thanks Mellisa for finding me!
    .-= TheBetsy´s last blog ..90 Day Fitness Challenge Update #2: Feel the Pain. =-.

  3. 3

    Nice to meet her..

  4. 4

    Wow. I love this. I think that is what I NEED is a systemic change. To come to a full stop and turn around. Great post. Thanks for sharing.
    .-= Jennifer´s last blog ..Climbing out =-.

  5. 5

    Such a great post and so true. I feel like the last couple of years of my life have been a systematic change. All for the better though.
    .-= Allison @ Alli ‘n Son´s last blog ..Top Ten from May =-.

  6. 6
    Kelly Deneen
    Twitter: kelly_deneen
    says:

    Such an incredible post. It sounds like you have made amazing progress in your life!! I need to make more changes myself. I know what I need to do, but getting there can be tough. Anyway, keep up the great work! Good to “meet” you. 🙂
    .-= Kelly Deneen´s last blog ..Random Tuesday Thoughts: Hey, it’s Tuesday. What else can I say? =-.

  7. 7
    alicia
    Twitter: projectalicia
    says:

    Great post. And I have got to jujmp on the guest blogging band wagon, especailly while on vacation. So, I’ve decided it all has to do with aging, that is these systemic changes we must make. I hate it, but it is imperative.
    .-= alicia´s last blog ..Guest Blogger, Awards, and a Clue =-.

  8. 8
    Kirsten says:

    I love this Betsy and couldn’t agree more!!! Thanks for the kick in the pants to make some additional changes that I need. Five years ago I decided to go sugar free and whole grains. Today I started a raw/vegan cleanse and this is just what I needed to hear to keep me on track!

  9. 9
    Ash
    Twitter: ashatshades
    says:

    Love this.

    I’m Greece about a year ago, still procrastinating over the change that I know needs to be done. Thanks for the inspiration. Detox clense eh? Hmmm…
    .-= Ash´s last blog ..Being a P.O.S. blogger means never having to say you’re sorry. =-.

  10. 10
    ash
    Twitter: ashatshades
    says:

    “cleanse” – urg.

    Chilling out over typos would be a good place for me to start.
    .-= ash´s last blog ..Being a P.O.S. blogger means never having to say you’re sorry. =-.

  11. 12
    TheBetsy
    Twitter: TheBetsy
    says:

    Thanks you all! Really grateful for Angie for giving me the opportunity to share. For those interested I did do a 30+ day “Clean” detox and documented the good, the bad and the awesome of the experience on my blog. Lots of links to more info if you’re curious.

    Pleasure to “meet” you all. Thanks Angie for the introduction!

    Cheers. Betsy
    (P.S. I do like the name Betsy. Not a lot of us out there in the wild…)
    .-= TheBetsy´s last blog ..90 Day Fitness Challenge Update #2: Feel the Pain. =-.

  12. 13
    Angie
    Twitter: 7clowncircus
    says:

    I love how you summed up your post with these lines:

    “So wether you’re Greece or just you, we all go through systemic change. It’s going to happen. It’s going to suck. You endure and you often find yourself… better.”

    I wholeheartedly agree.

  13. 14

    I loved this too. I am feeling very Greek at the moment. I need a major European boost:)

    I’m hoping my move and new life as stay at home (over working mom) will start some new changes, and ones that don’t begin with Hot Tamale overdoses.

  14. 15

    Love this post! And also love theBetsy! I already follow her tweets and she makes me laugh daily!! 🙂 Currently reading about her high calorie turkey burger! I eat turkey burgers too!!
    .-= Rachel @ Mommy Needs a Vacation´s last blog ..Summer Chicken Stir-Fry =-.

  15. 16
    Natalie
    Twitter: mommyofamonster
    says:

    I need a change, too…I eat horribly and DON’T want to pass that bad habit to the kids.

    This was an eye-opening post – thanks for sharing!!
    .-= Natalie´s last blog ..The Flower Garden =-.

  16. 17
    sheila
    Twitter: aventinehill
    says:

    Yes, we’ve made LOTS of changes since the bottom fell out, lol. (see? i’m LAUGHING) Change is good. Heck, it’s WONDERFUL!
    .-= sheila´s last blog ..The power of touch using massage oils. =-.

  17. 19
    Lindsay
    Twitter: Lindsay_Y
    says:

    I really enjoyed this…until I read that it got easier only after THIRTY days! Oh dear. I don’t know. I DO know I NEED to make a change and be healthier, but man alive, I struggle with sticking with stuff – namely EXERCISE!
    .-= Lindsay´s last blog ..Ella ~ F.I.V.E. =-.

    • 20
      TheBetsy
      Twitter: TheBetsy
      says:

      30 days? No, I think I started feeling better (well, looking better) after something like 7 days. The Cleanse I was on, though tough, was fairly practical – try for 7 then see if you can go 14… Get to 14? Try 21.

      I was personally challenged by the Dr who authored it (after an incredibly unfortunate cupcake batter incident- I had like 2 freakin’ spoonfuls!) I never back down from a challenge so I did it for 32 days. I blogged about it from Day 1 to 32 on my blog, TheLiquidBetsy.

      Making a change is really not that hard. Start small. In gearing up for this cleanse I stopped drinking coffee. It took about 3 weeks of weaning but I started sleeping better which was wonderful. Then I tried something else, having “green smoothies” for just breakfast, I dropped a few pounds and felt even better. It snow-balled after that.

      Just try one thing. Take up yoga or cut out caffeine. You’d be amazed how that one step begins a whole journey.
      .-= TheBetsy´s last blog ..The Pitfalls of Eating Out… or the 1,687 Calorie Turkey Burger From Hell. =-.

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